ITS DIGNITY IN ACTION DAY. ......

One of my pet hates is 'lack' of dignity.

It amazes me , that even now, you hear that something ( which to me is common sense and respect) can be overlooked.

I alwys took the approach when caring, that I was a guest in their home. Invited to help at what would be a sensitive time for the person and their family. manners and respect , always. Surely, this goes hand in hand with maintianing an individuals dignity at 'all' times?

It must be such a soul searching decisionto have to make and accept outside care. What concerns or worries would you have?....How many 'strangers' would be coming into YOUR home,what if I don't like the carer...what if they don't like me, what about the personnal care, toiletting,feeding...my personal space,me,my home!!!

It goes on doesn't it ...and if you are in this profession or find yourself caring for your own, please, please be aware of the concerns or anxieties this person may have

Over the years there were those who would do as much as they could before the carer arrived or insist they had 'managed' to wash/cook/take medication....sound familiar? Did you ever questionwhy? Were they able to or could they have been too embarrassed to have assistance with a shower or to dress? It takes to time to trust,even to accapt help is needed, especially with something so personal.

So, what can you do to help promote awareness of 'Dignity'?

Become a 'DIGNITY CHAMPION'.

Have a look on how to become a Dignity Champion here.. http://www.dignityincare.org.uk/

Discover what you can do ' to put dignity and respect at the heart of UK care services to enable a positive experience of care.'

Remember who you are helping and see the person.

This is a poem which captures it all for me...and I dedicate it to all.

This Quiet Dust was Gentlemen and Ladies

This quiet dust was gentlemen and ladies

And lads and girls;

Was laughter and ability and sighing,

And frocks and curls;

This passive place a summer's nimble mansion,

Where bloom and bees

Fulfilled their oriental circuit,

Then ceased like these.

Emily Dickinson

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